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I grew up in Southern England during the mid 70s late 80s. My parents were
what could best be described as "traditionalists". They were both British
and traditionalists not just in terms of fashion/clothing but on a whole
range of issues. From as early back as I can remember I had bare knees. In
my early years this was not a problem, however, as I got older it did become
one.
As a toddler and pre-schooler in the early to mid 1970's I primarily was
dressed in a T-shirt and shorts. My shorts were grey flannel materials
except my play shorts. My socks were usually ankle ones unless it was
winter. I had a heavy long coat which I wore over my shorts in winter time
but sadly that was the only protection my chapped knees ever received.
I went to a primary school. I was dressed like in grey shorts cut reasonably
tight and reasonably short. I wore a grey shirt, red and green striped tie,
grey jumper, grey kneesocks and short shorts about 1inch inside leg I didn't
wear a blazer.
I usually wore black leather tie up shoes to school. I only wore sandals,
in the summer. Some other boys at primary did wear brown sandals, personally
I never liked them, I never remember any of the other boys discussing them.
By primary seven (this would be about 1979) most other children my age
(about 11 years old) were wearing long trousers to school. Not all mind you
but most. It was at winter and I felt particularly alone My friends said
little about it as they were used to me in my shorts at home and school, and
as I was quite tall for my age few others did raised an eyebrow.
I don't remember thinking much about clothes as a younger boy and I didn't
discuss them with friends. I don't think children, especially boys, were as
interested in clothes then as they are now. However, by the time I was 13
shorts were the subject of a few conversations with my friends. They often,
initially told me how stupid I looked wearing shorts "at my age",
alternatively they explained I appeared to others as 'old fashioned'. I told
them that I acutely preferred wearing shorts. I can remember my parents
brought me some very brief short shorts (mid-thigh length) from Italy when
they came back from holiday. I was made to wear them in the summer and got
a few comments from other boys on how short they were.
During winter time they would say "are you feeling cold". Or "you must be
freezing" dressed like that.
I was in the cubs, and wore a pair of my school shorts along with the rest
of the standard cub uniform even in the winter. I can remember that once I
wore a pair of black long trousers to cubs in the winter and was told that
they weren't part of the uniform and to make sure I didn't were them again
grey shorts were to be worn at all times. Even when I went into the scouts
I wore shorts all the time.
My parents made me stay in shorts until I was 16 I only owned one pair of
long trousers which I wore occasionally when the weather became very cold. I
only wore shorts with jackets, some blazers, some casual jackets as well.
Most of my socks were knee-length, white grey and red. Some of my jackets
had hems lower than the bottom of my shorts. God only knows what some must
have thought seeing me from behind, they probably thought I didn't have any
trousers on at all.
I attended our local secondary at the age of 11 in 1980.
From 1980 I attended the local secondary school. The uniform was a black
blazer, white shirt, black and yellow tie, grey socks and grey or black long
or short trousers This was where the conflict really began. To my horror, I
immediately found that NO OTHER BOYS WORE SHORTS. None that is except me.
Yes I was embarrassed, and yes I got hell from my peers. My parents felt
that I should keep wearing them as they thought I look nice and smart. My
first day was a nightmare, black blazer, tie and grey short shorts, (about
mid thigh length 1 inch inside leg) and knee length grey socks. As my dad
dropped me off I felt a terrible numbness, feelings of trepidation swept
through me. Everywhere I went I was aware of eyes following me, or rather I
remember feeling at the time, following my legs.
Having said that by the start of second year most of the people who knew me
had accepted me and attitudes started to change. Of course the first years I
had a right laugh. Now this will sound strange but by now I was almost 13
and going through adolescence. I found it increasingly embarrassing to still
have to wear shorts. All though I actually preferred shorts to long trousers
because you didn't get hot and sweaty in the summer.
I remember travelling to London with the scouts and still wearing shorts at
15. Where ever I went I would be starred at. Especially on the train
travelling to London I remember sitting down, as my shorts were short when I
sat down they seemed to travel up my leg even farther. I remember feeling
like a little school boy. The people tried to be polite and not look to
much, but I felt very embarrassed I knew from the corner of my eye they were
continually glancing down at my shorts glancing a look at each other and
then half smirking as if to say "I cant believe this kid is wearing shorts
at 15".
I can remember when ever I would be driven in the car by dad. I still have
vivid memories of these trips--especially on cold mornings. I remember the
cold plastic vinyl sticking to the back of my bare legs. And in the summer
when I would go to sit down I would always jump up in pain because the Vinyl
was boiling hot that it would burn the back of my legs.
My parents explain that they thought I should wear shorts because I look
better in them. I suppose the motives are not far removed from the reasons
other parents have in the past. And of course the "aw doesn't he look cute" syndrome that only a mother could have when her son is dressed, well, cutely.
The last time I wore shorts to school was in 1984 when I was 16, I had
started to wear long trousers at winter and had done for about 6 months. I
still wore shorts to school when the weather was good and in the summer.
I was 15 and a half it was October and I had a discussion with my parents if
discussion is the right word, where the issue of shorts was discussed. This
was their deathknell--after this I became "normal"--but up until I left
school my nickname remained "shortie".
Matthew
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